My sweet sweet Cecilia is sick. She has her first ear infection and bad stuffy nose. She had a fever and has a hurting tummy. Wow, it is so sad to write it all out and to know she must be feeling so terrible. I took her to the doctor yesterday and she was prescribed that delicious ear infection medicine and it was recommended that she try drinking pedialyte. She does great with the medicine but doesn't seem enjoy all of those extra electrolytes (and I don't blame her. I took a sip and that stuff is AWFUL!)
Anyway-the delicious medicine will cause her poor already hurting tummy to get worse and now her cute little bum is totally raw! Today was the first day that she cried and cried because she was in pain. It KILLED me to have to change her diaper and know that it was hurting so bad.
As I was comforting her tears and pain and rocking her to sleep my mind was drifting to a place of wonder and amazement. Motherhood is totally incredible-I just have trouble even putting it into words sometimes. It occurred to me that these last 5 months have been some of the most challenging but beautiful of my life. To be blunt being a mom is hard, but absolutely worth it!
It is hard to see your baby who you love more than words hurting because she is sick. It is hard to sometimes let other people hold your baby because you just want to soak up every minute they have. To know that your baby will one day grow up and yell hurtful things or get so mad at you they cry. It is impossibly hard to imagine that one day your baby girl will not be little anymore and will make scary decisions on her own. Being a mom means loving unconditionally, being tired all of the time, and singing more songs than I ever thought I could. It is hard to be mom but more importantly it is perfectly beautiful.
To see your child light up when they wake from a nap and see your face. To hear their laughter and squeals of joy. To have your baby girl put her tiny hand on yours as you lay her down to sleep as her way of saying I love you Momma. To see the persistence of a baby trying to roll over and feeling joy through their accomplishment. Seeing the look of confusion as you feed your sweet baby solid food for the first time. Bringing your baby to bed with you because you can't bear to have them sleep alone because they are so sick. To share in the wiggles, tumbles and discoveries-these things-all of this amazing things make motherhood perfectly beautiful.
Rocking with my sweet Cecilia today made me realize that I am absolutely called to be a mother. I am called to experience the some of the pain and hardship that children bring and I am absolutely called to share in the joys and love of motherhood.
I thank God everyday for my child. I owe all I am and all I have to HIS great mercy and plan for me. The last 5 months have been the most perfect gift God could ever give. I can't wait to continue to see his gift unfold.
Peace,
S
Saturday, April 27, 2013
Monday, March 25, 2013
The Must Know's of Motherhood
I did a lot of reading blogs and some books before the arrival of Ceci.
I looked for those lists of things that people say they were
never told, I wanted to know the cold dirty truth of what
motherhood is really like. And let me tell you, some of
those lists were pretty intense..but because I read them
(therefore being "told' things I could expect) I couldn't use crazy things like
birth stuff or hormone stories in my own list of
"Things I was never told about having a baby" but that's okay....
I have my own list of what I like to call
The Must Know's of Motherhood!
1. You will get spit up on, pooped on, and peed on...a lot.
2. Getting anywhere means you have to get yourself ready... then sit down and nurse a baby, change a diaper, load all of the necessities into the diaper bag, buckle a car seat, put the stroller in the car and hope you didn't forget anything. Aka...start leaving for anywhere at least an hour before you normally would.
3. You will get strong arms.
4. It will be hard to lose weight. I know that you might have some of those people in your lives who bounce back right away but that is not my life and I seriously think they are somehow cheating fate.
5. Having baby will make you think and feel things you never thought were possible. For example, when Joe takes a little bit longer than anticipated in a store or out running errands I start to think there was a terrible accident and that he has died and then I literally plan the next steps and what I will do with Ceci Morbid..yes..crazy..some might think so..but seriously these are the thoughts that go through my head.
6. Sleep becomes a commodity that you will literally dream about and trade much for.
7. Taking an extra long shower becomes the new "spa day"
8. You will have to fight the urge to gush about your baby...all day every day.
9.You will nurse your baby in very unusual places..for me this has been our work car as we have to pull over very frequently on our way places because our commute can be quite long.
10. You may want to have another baby right away one second, and then the next you can't even believe you have a baby in the first place.
11. You will spend a significant amount of time researching baby products, reading mommy blogs, and google-ing every random and strange occurrence that happens with your baby throughout the day. (Maybe another pose I will elaborate on all of the awesome resources I have found on-line to ease all of my worries)
12. You will learn how to communicate with your husband in a totally new way. And almost miraculously he will fall more in love with you each day, even with those super strong arms, extra baby weight and all of the spit up in your hair.
13. You will call your own mother, grandmother, aunt or friends a lot with questions.
14. You will be terrified your baby is sick..like almost every day.
15. You will strive and strive to be the best momma you can be..and sometimes it is exhausting..other exhilarating, but mostly you will feel like the best momma you can be when you see your sweet baby's smile or hear a gentle coo.
There is a reason why it takes 9 months to grow a baby and even more of a reason why motherhood lasts a life time! I truly love being a momma and can't wait until my list continues to grow and grow.
Saturday, March 23, 2013
Bad Habit
Welcome to my kitchen. As you will notice this space is really great for an apartment in NYC. We have a dishwasher, a ton of cupboard space and even a sink big enough for Ceci to have a bath. What you might also notice are the cupboards and drawers left open. Yes, this is my bad habit-one of many! I am guilty of usually forgetting to close cupboards. (and apparently drawers too)!My sweet and patient husband has recently brought this habit to my attention. I seriously did not know I was this bad until a few days ago. He always gently reminds me to look in the kitchen after I leave and almost every time there is at least one cupboard open.
You might be wondering where this terrible habit came from, and if you have any insight please pass it along, because I just can't fathom where I would have picked this up!
Thankfully, Joe is kind enough to remind me each time I forget. I guess maybe I should have had a different lenten promise and practice. I guess there is always next year!
Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Being A Wife
Over the last 12 months I have become a wife and a mother. Sometimes I simply cannot believe that this is my life....and I would not change a single part of it for anything.Let me just gush for a second about why being Joe's wife is incredible.
1. He makes me laugh...and lets me cry...when I need to.
2. He is a fantastic cook! ( He made chili last weekend and it was so good our neighbors son came over and said asked for more...he is 6)
3. He cares for our daughter in a way that I cannot describe...you just have to see it.4. He fills my purple straw cup even when I do not ask.
5. He brings me closer to Christ and is focused on leading me to Heaven.
6. He helps me to be calm and he always has my back.
7. He is full of adventure (we moved to NY when I was 7 months pregnant for pete's sake....talk about an adventure!)
8. He is sweet and charming and handsome and loving and kind..and I could keep going but I think you get the point.Joseph Spargo makes being a wife an easy vocation. He is truly an amazing man; the best friend I could have and the best father in the world.
Okay...end gush!
1. I get to organize Joe's laundry so that it is easy for him to find.
2. I get to encourage Joe to pray evening prayer with me.
3. I get to help Joe get to heaven too...its not a one way street people!
4. Being a wife means the chance to be a mom...and that...well I will save all of that for another post.
5. I get to buy peanut butter and chocolate goodies because I want my husband to have something that lets him know that I care.
6. I have someone to wink at during work.
7. I get to care about another person's well being without being a stalker.8. I have someone to argue with who always is level headed when I might be a tad erratic!
What I am trying to get at is being married is incredible This last year has been so exciting and I can say I have grown closer to God, closer to Joe and have learned so much about myself. I can't believe that one year ago today we were days away from saying our vows, days away from the start of our life together.
God has such a perfect plan for our lives and I feel blessed beyond belief to get to spend my life with Joe.
Happy Anniversary Joe, I love you!
Sam
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Cecilia Agnes Spargo
Miss Cece was born on November 19, at 1:06am. She weighed 6 lbs 14 oz and was 19 inches long. She was and still is the most amazing baby I could have asked for. God truly is wonderful!!
I could write about labor, or my somewhat interesting hospital stay but what I have found most incredible about this baby is that I am her MOTHER! Holy cow..I am a mom!! The past month has been the greatest of my life. I feel so fulfilled, am overflowing with love and affection, and know that I am living out His will for me in my vocation as a wife and mother. I know that motherhood will inevitably bring sacrifice, pain and suffering but I do truly believe it will bring grace and show God glory.
Baby Cecilia makes being a mom pretty...dare I say...easy...I mean don't get me wrong there have been a few times that have been trying but seriously...she was sleeping 6-7 hours at night when she was 1 week old. I could gush all day about her sweet cheeks, they way she talks to us and how she has quite the feisty personality. She is such a wonderful, beautiful and smart baby. We feel so blessed to be her parents!!
Over time I hope to get better about posting updates and pictures...especially of the baby!
Oh yes....Merry Christmas!!
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
Hello Again...from NYC
It has been wayyyy toooo long since the last time I did any sort of writing or updating! Life has been pretty crazy the last few months! So I will do my best to leave off from where I began....
Since the last we met, Joe and I have moved to Brooklyn, have new jobs with an incredible organization, are one week away from our due date with Baby Cecilia, and survived our first hurricane! Whew....all in a days work right!! With all of these new changes there have been some really awesome friends met, places visited and hurdles crossed!
I guess I should start with why we are in New York ...Joe and I are working with an organization that serves a youth population that needs a little direction in their lives. So far it has been so wonderful! In the few short months since we started we have learned and grown in our own lives but also in our marriage and family! I am so grateful for the plan that God has put before us!
The move to the city went quite well! We packed most of our belongings in a u-haul pod, put the rest in our car and hit the road! Arriving in the city was a great experience! We made it through New Jersey and into Brooklyn with no major hiccups. The temporary apartment we have is beautiful and in an awesome neighborhood called Bay Ridge. We are one block from the subway, one block from any sort of delicious cuisine you can imagine and a dunkin donuts...could life be any better?!? But seriously....so far our time has been great! Getting used to the city, the Manhattan trafic jams and the lovely sewer smell..just to name a few...has been everything we could hope for!!
We even found a new doctor one block from our apartment...the perfect distance for an OB/GYN!! So far the doctors have been perfect! I feel like I have been seeing them for months and not just 5 weeks! They will take such good care of Cece once she decides to join us..in hopefully a short number if days! Being 9 months pregnant and living here has had its share of challenges. For example when we get off work at 11 we do not get to our subway station until about midnight...and then there are exactly 41 steps up from the subway platform to our third floor apartment. With all that walking and stepping I thought that MAYBE I would look super model thin with that perfect basketball belly...but nooooo of course I just feel like an elephant most of the time! Anyway in all honesty it really hasn't been too bad being uber prego with the move and all of the new changes...mostly it had been wonderful, plus I am always guaranteed a spot on the subway. Even New Yorkers won't make a ginormous pregnant lady stand!! And for that I am thankful!
Overall through the transitions and changes Joe and I are doing very well. We are SO INCREDIBLY EXCITED to meet our daughter, we have a new love of take out and can say we are settling in well!
We hope you are doing fabulously and if you happen to be in the city please let us know!!!
(PS...I hope to post pics soon...of maybe a new baby but also of summer festivities...yes I know I am kinda late)
Peace
Sam and Joe
Since the last we met, Joe and I have moved to Brooklyn, have new jobs with an incredible organization, are one week away from our due date with Baby Cecilia, and survived our first hurricane! Whew....all in a days work right!! With all of these new changes there have been some really awesome friends met, places visited and hurdles crossed!
I guess I should start with why we are in New York ...Joe and I are working with an organization that serves a youth population that needs a little direction in their lives. So far it has been so wonderful! In the few short months since we started we have learned and grown in our own lives but also in our marriage and family! I am so grateful for the plan that God has put before us!
The move to the city went quite well! We packed most of our belongings in a u-haul pod, put the rest in our car and hit the road! Arriving in the city was a great experience! We made it through New Jersey and into Brooklyn with no major hiccups. The temporary apartment we have is beautiful and in an awesome neighborhood called Bay Ridge. We are one block from the subway, one block from any sort of delicious cuisine you can imagine and a dunkin donuts...could life be any better?!? But seriously....so far our time has been great! Getting used to the city, the Manhattan trafic jams and the lovely sewer smell..just to name a few...has been everything we could hope for!!
We even found a new doctor one block from our apartment...the perfect distance for an OB/GYN!! So far the doctors have been perfect! I feel like I have been seeing them for months and not just 5 weeks! They will take such good care of Cece once she decides to join us..in hopefully a short number if days! Being 9 months pregnant and living here has had its share of challenges. For example when we get off work at 11 we do not get to our subway station until about midnight...and then there are exactly 41 steps up from the subway platform to our third floor apartment. With all that walking and stepping I thought that MAYBE I would look super model thin with that perfect basketball belly...but nooooo of course I just feel like an elephant most of the time! Anyway in all honesty it really hasn't been too bad being uber prego with the move and all of the new changes...mostly it had been wonderful, plus I am always guaranteed a spot on the subway. Even New Yorkers won't make a ginormous pregnant lady stand!! And for that I am thankful!
Overall through the transitions and changes Joe and I are doing very well. We are SO INCREDIBLY EXCITED to meet our daughter, we have a new love of take out and can say we are settling in well!
We hope you are doing fabulously and if you happen to be in the city please let us know!!!
(PS...I hope to post pics soon...of maybe a new baby but also of summer festivities...yes I know I am kinda late)
Peace
Sam and Joe
Monday, July 2, 2012
Baby Spargo Beginnings
One major reason I wanted to start blogging again was to "document" all of the changes that are taking place in my life-Moving to Omaha, getting married and being pregnant-I know theses are not all of the changes and news worthy events but for now I think they are pretty important.
I will probably spend a lot of time talking about being pregnant and the baby because right now that is what I am SO excited about. Every day is one day closer to meeting our amazing gift from God...UGH I JUST CAN'T WAIT!!!
So...from the beginning...Joe and I decided that we wanted to truly follow God's plan for our marriage and our new life together regardless of if it is what we thought was convenient or what we wanted- we wanted our decisions to be about something much greater. We put all of our trust and faith into God's beautifully crafted plan for our lives-and let me tell you how scary that was and continues to be! Whew serious stuff...but...I know that although at times so much is uncertain, we wake up each day and thank HIM for what HE has blessed us with and continually ask for courage to follow HIS plan for our lives and family.
Before we were married we always talked about waiting a few years to have children..because...well the reason escapes me now. ;) Joe and I had decided to use Natural Family Planning (NFP) and we took all of the courses, learned the Creighton Model and were excited to work within the system. We knew going into the whole process that using NFP was about God's plan but it also gave us insight into why couples choose to avoid pregnancy. We thought we fit that category for a long time...little did we know that God was preparing our hearts and minds for a very special different category...the Honeymoon baby!!!
After a lot of prayer and discernment we felt as though we were called to be open to creating a new life a tad sooner than we once had talked about...I was just SO ecstatic. I have always felt a calling and desire to be a mom and when Joe and I decided to "abandon the method" that instinct kicked right in. and...a few days after we were married that new life was beginning to form. What an AMAZING and BEAUTIFUL gift! Seriously procreation is way cool! Like sometimes when I feel little baby move I just can't believe that God allowed us to create another human life!!! AWESOME!
In November we will welcome our son or daughter into this world and I am eagerly waiting for that day! Although I can't say that every minute of being pregnant has been easy-it truly has been one of the most beautiful experiences I have had. God is SO good!
Happy Monday Everyone!!
I will probably spend a lot of time talking about being pregnant and the baby because right now that is what I am SO excited about. Every day is one day closer to meeting our amazing gift from God...UGH I JUST CAN'T WAIT!!!
So...from the beginning...Joe and I decided that we wanted to truly follow God's plan for our marriage and our new life together regardless of if it is what we thought was convenient or what we wanted- we wanted our decisions to be about something much greater. We put all of our trust and faith into God's beautifully crafted plan for our lives-and let me tell you how scary that was and continues to be! Whew serious stuff...but...I know that although at times so much is uncertain, we wake up each day and thank HIM for what HE has blessed us with and continually ask for courage to follow HIS plan for our lives and family.
Before we were married we always talked about waiting a few years to have children..because...well the reason escapes me now. ;) Joe and I had decided to use Natural Family Planning (NFP) and we took all of the courses, learned the Creighton Model and were excited to work within the system. We knew going into the whole process that using NFP was about God's plan but it also gave us insight into why couples choose to avoid pregnancy. We thought we fit that category for a long time...little did we know that God was preparing our hearts and minds for a very special different category...the Honeymoon baby!!!
After a lot of prayer and discernment we felt as though we were called to be open to creating a new life a tad sooner than we once had talked about...I was just SO ecstatic. I have always felt a calling and desire to be a mom and when Joe and I decided to "abandon the method" that instinct kicked right in. and...a few days after we were married that new life was beginning to form. What an AMAZING and BEAUTIFUL gift! Seriously procreation is way cool! Like sometimes when I feel little baby move I just can't believe that God allowed us to create another human life!!! AWESOME!
In November we will welcome our son or daughter into this world and I am eagerly waiting for that day! Although I can't say that every minute of being pregnant has been easy-it truly has been one of the most beautiful experiences I have had. God is SO good!
Happy Monday Everyone!!
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